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Wow, Where have I been
Since the last writing I have started going back into the office. It is interesting to hear and see other people’s perspectives on covid-19 the Corona virus. However, I digress.
I am going to have to add a few books to the my list of completed. I should get better at this. I have read John C Maxwell 15 Laws of Growth. I will need to re-read this book several times to get everything out of it.
Maxwell suggests taking a week to implement each law – So will need to keep reading. Maxwell is also pretty confident of his ideas because the world has given him so much money. It’s easy to gain confidence when people give you money because of your ideas. It makes me questions how much truth there is to his ideas. I am beginning to question if people get lucky they start to think they know more than they do.
I also read Astrophysics for People in a Hurry, by Neil DeGrasse Tyson. I liked this book because of the ideas that help expand my universe. He is a bit overconfident in the science when he admits in his book that we only know about 5% of the universe and the other 95% is filled with stuff we don’t know about but called “Dark Matter.” He also explains there is a cosmic force that is out there they cannot identify, which is called “Dark Energy.” Fascinating stuff. He admits that we don’t know much about gravity and other things that are going around us all the time, like gravity waves and neutrinos. He doesn’t call science a religion but with the faith he expects us to put in his beliefs it should be called a religion.
The other book I read is Malcolm Gladwell’s Talking With Strangers. This is a fascinating look at how we interpret and misinterpret other people but most importantly strangers. He goes into the problems the assumptions we make are causing problems.
One interesting thing is he discusses is that we “default to truth.” Which means we automatically believe what people say is true unless there is over-whelming evidence to get us to change that idea.
Another idea I picked up from the book is that TV shows make it so obvious what the actors are thinking and feeling we don’t even need the sound on to understand what is going on. But people from other places and other cultures do not understand the facial expressions the same way.
I am coming up with a new philosophy of why people have a hard time trusting me. I believe now it is because I have not watched that much television in my life. We didn’t have a TV until I was 12 and by then I had figured out other ways to fill my time. At 15 I started playing sports, a social life, my high school home workload, a job, and other adventures I didn’t have much time to watch TV. I can now see where this has put me at a disadvantage because I do not know how to act like people on tv.
Artemis Fowl – my review
Several years ago someone in a class I was teaching told me about this book series. I was intrigued and read a couple of them. I enjoyed he books and was excited last year when I heard Disney was going to release a movie.
I would liked to have seen it in the Theaters. Sadly the virus has put a stop to that.
The beginning of the movie was slow as it went about setting up the world of the fairies and trolls. But when it got going I enjoyed the story. One of the things I like about hero stories is when the Hero is able to anticipate and diffuse the attacks. I also like when the Hero is able to turn and opponent into a trusted friend.
Another fun thing is the special effects that can be generated now for movies is a lot of fun for the fantasy/science fiction genres.
My Universe
When I was a young child, I often wondered if I was the center of the universe and everyone was just an actor robot in my life. I know I am not the only person to have thoughts like these because of the “The Truman Show” with Jim Carry.
I have a new philosophy. I believe everyone lives in their own universe with there own rules, laws and commandments. I once heard Hyrum Smith the former CEO of the Franklin Covey institute talk about filters we all have, he explained it like panes of glass we look through as we interpret the world. However, I believe it is much more than that. I live in my own universe in my head. And I believe you are living in your own universe in your head.
What is startling to me is when people that I believe have a similar universal view continue to do things that are inconsistent with what I thought was a shared view I start to wonder what their view is and I remember they are living in their own universe of rules, laws and commandment and they are obeying their universal laws.
What is even more strange is we have our own rules, laws and commandments and then we apply a completely different set of rules, laws and commandments to others, which I believe is to mostly benefit ourselves.
I think where conflict comes from is when we believe someone is doing something that will benefit their own selfish desires at the expense of our own selfish desires. It seems most of us will gratefully have others sacrifice their desires for our selfish desires. It also seems we will sacrifice help from others because they are just preparing to take advantage of us in the future.